Going, But Are Growing???

Growing is coming to a place of willful learning through the day in, day out encounters with God. He is always aiming to make us Better. 

Sometimes however we slack and allow our contentment to become satisfaction and then we come to a downward slope in our growth. Even though life is still moving, the increase of using wisdom with every situation, decision and circumstance comes to a noticeable stop.

Some would like to ridicule and criticize those who fail, but fail to realize that humanity Fails Us. Not just in general, but on a personal and/or individual basis. Everything is not redeemable in the same way. And there are areas of our lives where we must have The Divinity taking us into DESTINY. Otherwise, a person is able to say that “he or she achieved it alone, or “on my own.” Hog Wash! Who gave you the talents, the skills and abilities, did you? Your parents? Their parents? Neither! It was God. So He alone gets the credit for things that are in working order, and He needs to be called on way before it is no longer working!

Many do not realize that they are guilty of Going and Going, but never stopping to note any sign of true growth. Growth has much to do with increasing how you are a well-rounded blessing to more and more around you. It is not about climbing a success ladder or achieving paying a mortgage off in itself, but it is about impacting lives and making a mark on the betterment of the lives of others, and not just me and my four.

Growth is not a comfortable place or a place that is simply functioning, but it is a place that pulls on your core areas and says——-“you can’t stay here, you must move to the next level.”

The family that is honest with you is the family that loves you. Sugarcoated lives have bleeding right under the surface and the need lies in God. In order for me to truly Grow, I must learn to Love. And not with the love that we start with when the kids were newborns or when marriage began, but through the issues, there was inward and outward improvement made, and through the things happenings, changes occurred. Growth that makes one expand, flex and that calls for adaptation.

Now there is a place that should harness it all or should I say person. Why? Because there is plenty that looks like love or looks needy but yet it is a time waster, therefore, one can misapply love out of lack of understanding. Love misapplied is an unfortunate norm. The heart is so unstable and switches and changes clothes, temperament and expectation 50 times an hour. So this is where humanity alone is not stable enough. Besides the fact that we don’t know what to do in many situations and try to go about doing things however we think, which is never good enough and end up creating bigger problems than we started out with.

Humanity needs Divinity. I need God. You need God. We need God. To direct this thing called life. We do not want to just have the instruments, but the melody and music which God intended that we should have and enjoy as it all comes forth in complete harmony when He is involved.


Let’s Grow as we Go!


Ground that Tries to Grow Trash

Anger, hurtful memories….the reality that things did not pan out…..the surge of madness that swells up after years or months of giving out the best of your heart. Only to be Rejected.

In hindsight, one may have said to herself (or himself), ‘What wrong did I do?’ or ‘What is it about me that this is happening?’ There are so many questions that one may ask or state in an attempt to rationalize their experience.  I would beckon to this person to reevaluate your part, your involvement & your status before you met the significant other. What was so significant about the other in your eyes? Did you remain true to you? Have you ever remained true to yourself? What exactly did you compromise and why? Any unhealthy patterns? Identify them. Exposure of harmful patterns is a must for change to take place.

Many times we don’t know what our status (and value) is as a single portion or entity. We don’t know what we are made of. We don’t know what’s in our soil and so we connect with someone and attempt to grow, develop or germinate with them when we are not whole ourselves. The heart of every soul is deep. It is of absolute importance to be whole in order to recognize or comprehend wholeness. Fragments can and will appear attractive. But with the weight of life itself, fragments are not enough. There are people who will live off of your vulnerability, lack of understanding, unrealistic expectations and fantasy-mindframes and end up making a very good living for themselves

Yes, a so-called attraction that you aid and abet, whether you are aware of it or not, can turn into usery, degradation and unhealthy dependencies, desires and plainly stated, a bad experience. It can leave you feeling depleted and embarrassed in so many ways: emotionally, socially, mentally, financially and so on.

Wholeness is Green and it is where you want to be! Each leaf on your tree needs to be shining and bold. Invite yourself to step-outside-of-self and take-a-look at your condition. How? Prayer. The Creator knows YOU! He knows what He created. Get close to Him. Open the book (Bible) that you thought was just full of stories and allow your eyes to be opened to the real deal & a real Heal! You want answers? Then, DO NOT walk away from yourself ever again and return with trash and ashes

Self-discover. Park your car. Take up a hobby that you claim there is no time for. Breathe! Ask God to open your eyes so you can begin understanding some “things that are under the radar.” Ask God to send a protective and insightful circle of people to fence around you during this process. And Began the process, finally. Allow life to enter back in. Cuddle up with peace. Become best friends with contentment. If you remain true to you, which is a genuine learning process, you will find joy seeping back into your soul. Don’t rush the process. Get a journal and write your thoughts down so you can look back on the growth. Or voice record your feelings and upload to a Dropbox or digital storage app. 

Mind made up?

It may take some time to be determined. Do what is necessary to get there. If you are ready, make sure to view the Before photo of you.

And check out the After!

Don’t be discouraged! It is possible and On the Way with a determined mindset!

One thing, I love about your After is that not only is your Garden of Eden flawless and alive, but there is a bridge! A bridge means so much. It can even represent healthy instead of scorched. After true wholeness you won’t allow trash to crossover into you. Remember, the heart is like soil, and it produces or births what is poured and planted inside it. Guard your heart and refrain from giving it away until you know what you want and need and who is suitable for you. (Only in the solidified relationship between you & God, will this truth be clarified.) He didn’t just create you, but He created marriage and all relationships. And He did not create relationships to be toxic, but on an individual level, we must do our part to avoid harming others.

Dream Signs, Symbols & Tips: Garments, Attire, Outfits & Clothes

Garments, Attire, Outfits, Uniforms, Clothing….

There are various forms of clothes in dreams and visions. They can be casual everyday, Sunday dress, royal or after 5. Clothes that are being worn can represent the heart, a status, a motive, an anointing, spiritual vocation or calling, a masquerade. Sometimes a person can have on a gray shirt, black shirt, grave or mourning clothes. One can also be finely dressed.

Gray shirts, mainly T-shirts can represent the salvation status of a soul, (person). Gray can mean unsaved, lost or without Jesus. 

A black T-shirt can mean operating outside of God, going one’s own way. It can relate to the soul of a person functioning according to his own personal intellect, mindset, will, plans, thoughts and emotions without any God-fearing guidance or Lordship of God of the whole universe. This is not a good thing.

Royal clothes can represent the splendor of one’s ministry & calling. A person can be operating as an evil person and still have on royal attire or garments. For instance if a person has on a beautiful royal blue jacket but a portiin of its body is connected to a beast, then the identity is including a negative nature that is operating even though this person may masquerade him or herself as a God-fearing person.

A beautiful color suit upon a good-natured individual is a good thing and can represent a specific anointing. 

Many times if you see a man in a tie and dress shirt, or a woman in a suit, this means he or she is a man or woman of God in God’s eyes.

If you see a person wearing translucent or unnaturally bright white attire, it can signify a masquerade, an alternative ego or someone portraying to be good, but is not.

Uniforms can represent spiritual vocations. For example, if you have on a doctor’s suit coat or a nurse uniform God may be showing you that He is using you in the capacity of a natural vocation but in a spiritual manner. A scrub uniform is normally associated with a nurse. 

Well, you may been spiritually endowed with the ability to care for or nurture people. You may have the ability to work in different areas that natural or physical nurses operate in. 

Physical nurses care for the wounded, infected, those who are pregnant, those who are bleeding, or being prepped for surgery, the weak, due to all types of injuries from gunshots, stabs, overworked and even things like dehydration. So spiritually God can use us to nurture, admonish, restore with the gentle spirit of a nurse.


You could be shown in your dreams to be wearing a white coat, except for the fact in the dream you deal with the heads of people…..a spiritual psychologist. 

I pray that this has been helpful to you! ♡

#DreamDiary #7Eyes #DreamShare


Moving Forward 

Moving forward means reassessment of activities. Then it is beneficial to have a subtraction party of people, places & things that apply & influences. addition of people based on our understanding of what or who we really need around us.

We may also ask the questions, “What did I really need that I didn’t have? What would have made some great differences?”

It’s not a moment to dwell in regret but to make time count. Wasting time can become common if one does not stay focused. Guard your heart ahead of time by seeing things unfold in your mind. Prepare yourself mentally. Prepare yourself visually. Prepare yourself to Move Forward!

Better results stem through intentional preparation!

Get Up & Dance With Me!



We have all been in that place….lost….wondering. What’s really next? and What’s really for me?  This place can seem to have no light. It can seem repetitive or new or just plain unwanted.  You try to numb it…pretend all is well. Eat something…watch TV….nothing helps. More thoughts…thinking….still not moving….and then…..you decide to GET UP! I  will die if I stay in this place. 

So I arise. I’m glad about this decision because now the light flickers. It is still a little unsteady but at least it is starting to work.

An old friend texts me. Its been a while but this person is always onto something purposeful. So I text back.

“Can you talk?”

“Sure,” I text-reply.

2 hours later….”Oo, I needed this!” A fresh wind. Hope was ignited all the more. Is the fire in me snuffed out? No! Even though it is not as strong as what it shall be. 



“Dance with you? I sure will!”

Finally dancing! Finally back on my feet. Finally up and twirling and the world will surely see! I’ve been reignited and me is becoming me!  

Now the law of attraction is activated. My fire, her fire, his fire and our fires come together in a synergistic bonfire that we won’t ever hide. 

We are made to be revived and not be buried alive. I must say I appreciate the resuscitation of life.

Get Up & Dance With Me! Pt. 2


Your foot…..your feet…..your footing….your footwork….

Your feet are very important to God. Just imagine that you have the gift of dance. How you step or how you dance is key to your overall message. If the message of the dance doesn’t reach the audience or intended recipient, then your relationship is left to chance.

Dancers speak their hearts or someine else’s heart through moves and steps.

Some key questions are, “Am I moving in step with My God? Is my timing right? Is my flow pleasing to Him?”

Dance deals with my life choices and whether or not the synchronizing rhythm of them is aligned with God’s purpose for me (blushing, cause He cares deeply for us).

The song matters too. The words of the song brings ideas, emotions and desires to the surface. It allows us to deal with or think on convictions, truths and yearnings  of the heart with a pleasing sound.  The dance matters. It expresses by becoming the words of our hearts and the inward message. The moves matter all the more. Choose to dance to God’s lead song that possesses His Life-message to us. Choose to go with His rhythm and you will always end up well.

Ask yourself What song? Whose song? What influence? Whose influencing your steps? Is it my mood or His Presence? Is it what’s going on or my pursuit of Him?

♡ Yes, we do express ourselves and vent and rid of things through our gifts, but is there balance between me and Him. Am I giving Him more than I am demanding?

My feet….

Are my feet following the orders of God? Or are these steps my own orders? Choose from Now on Who you will serve. Choose His rhythm, His song, and be secured in His life-flows. Dance with Me, says the Lord!
Remember..the song matters, the dance and the moves do too!

All Things New

When the “New-You” arises you want to immediately display him or her. Well, that is what has happened for me. New visions, goals, dreams and aspirations…may I add, a “New Kick-off!”


What I found is that as we run, we ‘become’ the vision & while striding it serves us well to revisit, revised and restate the vision.

Revisit. When I pull out the journals, old notes and pictures of my original plans, my current endeavors are just add-ons to what I decided in the beginning.  This reaffirms the heartbeat that God jumped off in me from the start. Remember,  He is Author & Finisher of our faith: the substance of things hoped for yet what we haven’t fully received just yet. It’s much like a baby in the womb of the mother, still forming in fear & complete wonder of what it will look become. In the meanwhile I tend to it prenatally.

Prenatal care is vital to the proper development of God’s Vision in me. It also takes His supervisory care for it to manifest fully and to become what was in His heart and mind. You see, I carry out His purposes but through my relational commitment and dedication to Him I put legs to the vision with creativity. The Vision will in essence be a merger of God’s desires through my character and person which must continually undergo inward development as well.

This new me includes High-definition and I am loving it! It involves expansion, new people and progressive prayers. We must move forward and upward. Growth include maturity, new and better desires and a stronger grip with a more precise execution of the vision.  It involves strategy and if led, Help. I have help this time.  One of my prayer involved requests for a ‘Right-Fit.’
I can’t go further without displaying the breakdown of a ‘Right-Fit’:

Right Revelation
Right Connections
Right Mindset
Right Prospective
Right Discernment
Right Heart
Right Cause
Right Communication
Right Service
Right Synergy
Right Skill set
Right Time
Right Team (Undertakers)/Partners
Right Focus/Outlook
Right Project
Right Resources
Right Gift – contribution
Right Disposition.
Right Target/Aim
Right Projections
Right Stategy
Right Counsel/Advice/Input